Hi, Steve here.
I am struggling with addiction with sex and porn. I've managed to stop the more troublesome behaviors (infidelity, sex with strangers, voyerism, exhibitionism, and porn). I still struggle with sexual thoughts, objectifying people, fantasy, cybersex, and masturbation.
I am married, but there hasn't been anything going on there for nearly two years. I think partly because of past infidelity, age and, to be honest, normal sex is no longer possible. I have no doubt that sex is a drug. I realize that I need to reprogram my brain. It is a daunting task - to say the least.